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How to Deal with Dementia in a Parent

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Caring for a parent with dementia can be an emotional journey. When a parent has a condition like dementia, Alzheimer’s, or memory impairment, they often need a higher level of care than they can get at home. If you’re facing this challenge, don’t panic. There are many ways to cope with the challenges that come with caring for a parent with dementia.

When a parent has dementia, memory care can help. These specialized communities provide compassionate, professional care and support from a team of trained caregivers in an environment designed to support the unique needs of those with dementia.

What Is Dementia?

Dementia is a term for a group of conditions that affect memory, thinking, and reasoning. It’s not a normal part of aging.

Alzheimer’s disease is the most common cause of dementia, but other diseases can also lead to it. 

Some common signs of dementia include:

  • Difficulty remembering recent events
  • Challenges with familiar tasks
  • Changes in mood or personality
  • Confusion or disorientation
  • Wandering or getting lost in familiar places

Dementia is progressive, and symptoms may gradually worsen over time. While there’s no cure, early diagnosis and intervention can improve a person’s well-being and quality of life. Recognizing the early signs of dementia can help families plan for the future and explore supportive care options.

How to Tell If a Parent Is Developing Dementia

As we age, forgetfulness can become more common. However, some signs might indicate something more serious, like dementia. Here are some ways your parent’s well-being might be affected by dementia:

  • They have trouble recalling recently learned information, such as appointments or conversations.
  • They need extra help with everyday tasks they used to manage easily, like cooking or paying bills.
  • They struggle with familiar places or routines.
  • They find it challenging to make decisions or solve problems.

These changes don’t necessarily mean dementia. However, it’s important to schedule a checkup with a healthcare professional for a proper diagnosis. Early intervention can be very helpful in managing dementia and supporting your parent’s well-being.

What to Do If Your Parent Has Dementia

Receiving a diagnosis of dementia can be overwhelming. Here are some steps you can take to help both yourself and your parent:

  • Educate yourself: Dementia encompasses a range of conditions. Learning more about the specific type of dementia your parent has can help you understand their experience and make informed decisions about their care.
  • Create a safe and supportive home environment: Adjusting your parents’ living space can promote their safety and well-being. Changes may include ensuring proper lighting, removing tripping hazards, and creating clear pathways for navigation.
  • Maintain a consistent routine: Routines can provide comfort and security for someone with dementia. Sticking to familiar meal schedules, sleep, and activities can help reduce anxiety and confusion.

Remember to Take Care of Yourself

Caring for a loved one with dementia is a rewarding yet demanding experience. It’s important to prioritize your own well-being to ensure you can continue providing care for your parent.

Burnout can look like: 

  • Feeling overwhelmed or exhausted
  • Difficulty managing daily tasks
  • Loss of interest in activities you used to enjoy
  • Changes in appetite or sleep patterns
  • Increased frustration or irritability

If you’re experiencing any of these signs, it’s important to seek support. Memory care communities can help.

How Can Memory Care Help?

Memory care is specialized senior living for those with dementia or other memory-related conditions. It provides a safe, structured environment where trained staff members offer personalized care and support.

These communities often feature:

  • Secure environments to prevent wandering
  • Specially designed living spaces to promote independence
  • Individualized care plans tailored to each resident’s needs
  • Engaging activities and therapies to stimulate cognitive function
  • 24/7 assistance and supervision from trained caregivers

Memory care communities give your parent a place where they can thrive in a safe, secure environment. 

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Find Help with Lilac Trace Memory Care

The Enclave of Franklin is a Lilac Trace Memory Care neighborhood. 

Lilac Trace is designed to support your loved one’s individual needs and journey. Our personalized care plans and daily acuity programs help residents flourish and maintain a sense of self. With a diverse calendar of events and a team of Certified Dementia Practitioners (CDPs), Lilac Trace Memory Care fosters a sense of dignity, belonging, and hope for the future.Schedule a visit to our community today to see where your parent can get the care, love, and support they deserve.

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